A share of me #2 - Choices we don't make
There are some choices we do not want to make, whatever happens. Those choices depend on either the avaibility of a good ending, or no desired options, or even both.
One tries often to predict the future to the outcomes of either possibility (even if those prediction are futile, considering the different interactions), and take it into consideration.
It is a vicious way of solving this problem. In a sense, it often comes to short-term good for long-term bad, or the reverse. Then you look at the options, and can't decide if you want to make up later for not-so-bad consequences and take the present as-good-as-it-is-possible, or the other way around...
Sometimes you get away of this, timing out, or because someone else took the decision instead of you. You're then glad you didn't make the choice... and happy about the outcome of it...
Or so it seems.
One tries often to predict the future to the outcomes of either possibility (even if those prediction are futile, considering the different interactions), and take it into consideration.
It is a vicious way of solving this problem. In a sense, it often comes to short-term good for long-term bad, or the reverse. Then you look at the options, and can't decide if you want to make up later for not-so-bad consequences and take the present as-good-as-it-is-possible, or the other way around...
Sometimes you get away of this, timing out, or because someone else took the decision instead of you. You're then glad you didn't make the choice... and happy about the outcome of it...
Or so it seems.
1 Comments:
I'm speechless on this, only that what comes up in my current state of mind, would be:
we keep making the wrong choices, and the more choices we make, the more the wrong-number shall increase.
You just gotta hope that eventually the % will smooth out and start dropping.
:(
Often when someone else took the decision for me, or I did not take it myself in time, the outcome is bad. I'm stuck in a situation then I did not pick, therefor its automatically bad. See chapter on controlling behaviour.
Most choices are not about whats good though. they are about picking the least wrong one. Simply because everything has both negative and and positive consequences, and we're doing nothing but damage control our lives long.
bah.
Today no more choices. too much of a pessimist view.
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